We try all kind of things all in the quest of preserving our marriages.

Some of us don't try at all, all we do is constantly looking to the other to make changes because nothing is wrong with us, how vain & foolish can one person be!

Some of us spend money that we don't have & put ourselves in unfortunate situation just to set the right mood in a fore away place because our homes are not enough.

We put a side our principles and ignore morals because all other failed, we then invite sexual immoralities while seeking  exciting ideas on how to simulate the shallow, harden and cold dead heart of our lover while inviting demons that will further  cause the demise of your relationship and hold us as slaves. We go in search of mystiques and limited knowledge of imperfect men who as failed at the very thing and all this time we never seek the knowledge of an all knowing all seeing, the master of perfection to see what he has to say about the matter!

For the fact is, even thought all as failed and our hope lies only in a delusion of a new beginning we dear not seek him.  And as long as we live without the council of God failure is inevitable.

Some of us know this but as a result of fear we look to the unreasonable and impracticable and all of these thing or base on ignorance, for God will be your strength in times of weakness you will be the light to harden and cold dead heart if that is the will of God and we know that all things work together of good for them that loves the lord.